About – Michael Langer Coaching
About Michael Langer
Leadership coach, cross-cultural strategist, and thought partner in high-stakes transition.

I have led from the inside, not from the sidelines.

Many coaches learn leadership from frameworks. I learned it by holding real responsibility across countries, cultures, and teams. I have worked with leaders when there is no script and no room to pretend everything is fine.

Strategic clarity Cross-cultural fluency Deep presence Zero pretense
Based in New York. Working with leaders globally. From Meta and Apple to high-growth startups.
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Michael Langer Coaching
Credentials
PCC – International Coaching Federation Certified Executive Coach – NeuroLeadership Institute Advanced Training – Neuroscience, Trauma, IFS M.A. Adult Learning – Hunter College B.A. English Literature – Columbia University
My story

I took a sharp left turn — and stayed there on purpose.

After graduating from Columbia and landing a consulting role with Samsung, I walked away from the expected path. I moved to China with no job lined up, no Mandarin skills, and no safety net. That decision shaped everything about how I coach today.

What followed
Leadership in the wild, not in a textbook

I spent eight years immersed in cross-cultural leadership across China, Thailand, Korea, and Japan. I led team transformations, mediated power struggles, and watched strategies rise or fall on one cultural blind spot.

Back in the U.S.
Bringing lived experience into executive coaching

Returning to care for my father, I brought that experience into executive coaching and deepened it with training in neuroscience, trauma, and Internal Family Systems. I have worked with leaders at Meta, Apple, and high-growth startups navigating identity, pressure, and disconnection.

What I learned
Being in the room when it is working and when it is not
  • How to build trust across cultures, even when you do not share a language.
  • How to read a room when no one is saying what they actually mean.
  • How to stay steady while the ground keeps shifting under you.

This is the basis of my coaching: no formulas, no clichés. Just insight earned from sitting inside the mess with leaders, not observing from the sidelines.

What we can work on

The moments leaders usually carry alone.

Every engagement is tailored, but these are the situations where I am most often brought in to help leaders turn transition into traction.

Executive Transitions

Step into new or expanded roles with a clear mandate and a way of leading that still feels like you.

Cross-Cultural Leadership

Turn difference into an advantage and lead global teams without defaulting to one “right” way.

High-stakes Conversations

Prepare for conversations where titles, egos, and cultures collide and something real needs to change.

Team Realignment

Move from friction and drift to honest dialogue, clear decisions, and forward motion.

Founder Dynamics

Surface tension early so it becomes a source of clarity instead of a quiet split that costs everyone.

Hogan / Harrison Assessments

Turn trait-based data into a shared language so patterns are visible and next moves are obvious.

Creative Reconnection Coaching

For those returning to parts of themselves they set aside.

Trusted by leaders at

I have coached leaders and teams in organizations ranging from early-stage startups to global enterprises.

Anthropic Apple Meta Samsung Microsoft Intel Deloitte JPMorgan Chase P&G High-growth startups across tech & healthcare

The logos matter less than this: I know what it feels like to lead when the old rules stop working.

What makes me different

Not just more tools. A different kind of partner.

Most coaches…
Stay outside the mess
  • Offer frameworks and models for you to try on your own.
  • Focus mostly on performance tools and surface-level behavior change.
  • Define clarity as having the perfect answer or strategy.
I…
Step in it with you
  • Bring pattern recognition grounded in lived, cross-cultural leadership.
  • Work with what is actually happening: identity, pressure, and the cost of success.
  • Define clarity as integrity under pressure and a style of leading that fits who you are now.
What you can expect

Space to get real, and a way to move forward.

Honest space

A room where you can say “I do not know,” “I am tired,” or “I am off balance” without it becoming a liability.

Clarity in complexity

We work with the real constraints of your context instead of pretending things are simpler than they are.

Experienced partnership

A partner who has led in unfamiliar cultures, navigated ambiguity firsthand, and helped leaders move through their own moments of change.

Forward motion

Conversations that turn into specific moves, not insight that never leaves the room.

Case-by-case approach

Whether you are a first-time founder or a seasoned executive, our work is built around your moment, not your title.

Human first

We develop leadership capacity without losing sight of the human being carrying the role.

In short

How I work with leaders.

Real talk, no performance. Space to say what is actually happening so we can work with the truth, not the slide deck.
Clarity in messy contexts. We map the moving pieces, name patterns, and decide on simple next moves.
Insight that turns into action. Every conversation ends with something you can try in the real world, not just a new framework.

With me you have space for honest conversation and forward movement. We name what is actually happening, cut through noise, and reconnect you with the way you lead when you are steady and clear.

Let’s Talk

No generic frameworks. Just real insight from someone who has led in unfamiliar cultures, navigated ambiguity firsthand, and supported others through their own moments of change. Growth happens at the edge of comfort, and you do not have to stand there alone.